Grief Writing Prompts

Writing can be a powerful tool for processing grief. Prompts give a gentle way to guide your writing to help you express feelings that may feel too big, confusing, or overwhelming to say out loud. Remember, the goal with grief writing, isn’t polished words, it’s presence with your grieving self.

Tips for using grief writing prompts

Choose a notebook, journal or similar. Find a quiet space. Read through the list below and choose a prompt (sentence starter) that most resonates. Alternatively, you might think of a prompt that isn’t listed here. Different prompts tend to resonate at different times. Focusing on your chosen prompt, allow yourself to simply write what comes to you; write without editing. Don’t worry about spelling, grammar, or style. And don’t panic if you’re unsure what to write. Just keep reflecting on the question and write whatever comes. Stop when you feel you’re ‘done’ (most people journal for 5–15 minutes per prompt) or before then, if you choose (there’s nothing saying you have to finish a prompt – you make the rules here!). You might prefer to journal one prompt, per sitting, or several; you choose. 

Let the pages you write in be a space where anything goes and nothing has to make sense; where you can be in and with your grief, honestly and free of self-judgement.

Grief writing prompts

  • A memory that makes me smile…
  • One thing I wish I could say to them right now…
  • What I would say to someone else who is grieving a similar loss…
  • The things I wish I could release today…
  • What I wish people understood…
  • I miss the version of me who…
  • If my grief would talk it would say…
  • What I believe my loved one wants me to know…
  • The things, words, or experiences I miss the most...
  • Three things I am grateful for today (even if they are small)…
  • A ritual, memory, or object that helps me feel close to them still…
  • An aspect of grief that has surprised me…
  • What I most need from my grief today is…
  • What I wish I could say to them…
  • What I most to hold onto right now… 
  • The support I most need right now…
  • The things no one sees…
  • Right now, grief feels like…
  • The emotions I most struggle with are…
  • A place, person, or activity that brings me comfort (even a little)…